Not sure what to think?
Well, we are obviously in a position to communicate with lots of Men just like your Man. We also have done quite a bit of researching on the topic (and not from internet chat rooms, we mean real quantitative study reviews, actual human psychology science.) Hopefully we can give you a little useful information, and help you avoid a lot of the non-sense you’ll see on the internet.
The vast majority of Men who have a Panty wearing preference are heterosexual, and are actually much more likely to be 100% straight than the general population.
Men wearing women's Panties for sexual excitement is entirely different and separate from gender-identity issues. For the vast majority of women, we can clearly say “Your man is not gay, and does not want to be a woman.”
The majority of Men with Panty wearing preferences are so highly attracted to females, that this is a way to feel even closer to women and may serve as a tension release for those with stressful careers.
Very few men with a Panty wearing preference (aka fetish) are non-heterosexuals, it is actually really rare for them to be non-heterosexual. (Most of our gay male friends are even freaked our by the word “Panties”, so forget about wearing, or even touching them.. LOL) Certainly, there are exceptions, and we welcome and embrace everyone in our LGBTQ family.
These studies also show that Men with a Panty preference on average: have higher IQs, make more money, are more successful, are more loyal to their wives/girlfriends, are much less likely to cheat, are much more likely to have type-A alpha male professions (like executives, lawyers, doctors, law enforcement, leadership positions of all types and other "manly" professions.)
Quite prevalent. In fact 3-5% of heterosexual men regularly wear women’s lingerie for pleasure. The majority do this secretly. So about one in every 20-30 men are secretly enjoying women’s lingerie to some extent. Most have a deep desire to share the experience with their mate, yet keep it hidden.
Having a Panty wearing preference (aka fetish) is not a mental disorder, nor does it predispose him to have any mental disorder. It is a harmless, but powerful attraction to a symbol of the opposite sex.
Girls, if you are reading this because of a special man in your life, then he has trusted you with the deepest and most personal part of his being, something very precious, and I am happy for you both!
During the past few years, we have had the unique opportunity to have private conversations with so many men on this sensitive subject. We feel compelled to share what we have learned, how important it is to him, and how hard it can be for him to tell you.
So my advice to the ladies: If you know your man likes wearing Panties then take full advantage of this little gem. So easy to wrap him around your little finger, it's almost not fair! Soon, you may Love it more than he does. HaHa! He's a keeper, and now you know exactly how to get anything you want. Too many women take the "try to ignore it" approach and are sadly missing out on a wonderfully intimate opportunity. It is such a simple little key to his heart, use it and he will Love you to the end of time.
Why are we writing this? Because unlike us, hetero men suffer tremendous shame and degradation from this harmless little quirk. Now are we just trying to sell Panties? For goodness sake, this is a very small part of our customer base. If men never bought here again, our accountant would never notice (but we'd get a lot less emails!!!) If posting info like this made money, then VS and everyone else would be doing it too. Even if 10% of men started wearing Panties, that is tiny compared to the 100% of women who do! We just hate seeing such loving men getting misrepresented, really hate it.
Thank you for taking the time to read this. You are obviously patient and kind, and I see why he loves you.
PS. Girls, feel free to email anytime.